Confession, or the way we communicate and receive love.

(Banksy)

This is so funny, because I have no idea who am I talking to. I am not that active over here, so even if I earn some reader I loose him/her immediately, as there are no constant posts. It's like once every year… But every time I post something here, is the greatest pleasure! It is sharing and grabbing and sorting out thoughts and feelings. I love writing, even though I am not the best at grammar. But this is communication and a lovely experience of sharing….

Communication to people is important, but what is more important to you? Communication or acceptance?
"Thanks" to Instagram "likes" became a way of communication, as well as receiving love and attention, and if your picture doesn't have enough "likes" you are no longer loved. Well you may lough but there are really people who truly getting upset about it. And they put thousand of hashtags to get followers or likes from other unknown people. Isn't it funny? or sad…. Even me getting a bit effected by this disease, I must admit! Obviously not extreme, but I am addicted.

-"Hello Everyone! My name is Liza and I am addicted to Instagram and receiving likes..."
-"Hi Liza!"

The issue of acceptance is so so important for me right now. As I have started the business that doesn't work that well. And this fiasco I take so personally… Every little negative comment makes me aggressive and irritated. In reality people talk bullshit and make subjective assumptions and think they do a big difference… In one of my posts I was talking about silence. Sometimes it is the best! Even my greatest friends try to sort out my troubles by giving me irrelevant solutions which way they show that they don't believe in me and what I do. (This is advice, cheer people up and inspire, and don't give any advises unless you have been asked to do so, they find the way how to solve the problem themselves.)

-"Hello Everyone! My name is Liza and I have failed my first business, and don't really like when people give me advices and irrelevant assumptions..."
-"Hi Liza!"

And the last bit of communication that I have though about for some period of time… Does everything what people say, express (and post on social media, picture, write, videotape, email, whats app, sing….) is true?
Quite a few times I knew a person who I though is truly hating me, later for some reason he or she was telling me that I was almost their inspiration. And visa versa, people who gave me promises of love and respect were actually just disturbing the silence.
Even now, I don't really know if somebody reads this post and love it or they think that I am one of those crazy bloggers rubbishing the Web. And if the negativity is there, maybe it is not because my blog is bad, but because they have a bad bad day at work….

-"Hello Everyone! My name is Liza and I don't believe to everything people say to me. Sadly I think they lie and misinform…."
-"Hi Liza!"

I am leading to the conclusion that our main part of life - communication, is so complicated. But in stead of spreading love and opening heart, we suppress those feelings and pretend to be cool and indifferent.
Here where I have started the business, people are not communicative. They are judgmental (as all customers) and very distant. They pretend even to themselves. But the reason behind is most probably not being open for new things, not being able to express emotions and positive feelings.

Therefore….

-"Hello Everyone! My name is Liza and I suggest everyone to spread love (especially in comments bellow) and open your heart to receive love… Be communicative and let people know that their affords are actually appreciated. However appreciate the good will you receive back from others"
-"Hi Liza!"

Dear reader, if you read this, please find the time to let me know about it which ever way you want.
If not, it was a please to open my heart in a labyrinth of internet communication.

With love!
Liza!

#Timeless

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Piaget Rose ring in 18K white gold set with 39 brilliant-cut diamonds (approx. 0.44 ct) and a cushion-cut pink tourmaline (approx. 2.68 ct).

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Wise versa

Simple rules to live this week wisely:

1. Start to appreciate silence, normally we are scared of it. Happens to everyone to tell something stupid just to brake an awkward hush or turn music on just to avoid inconvenient solitude. But remember that only in a calm state of mind you can hear your heart beat and what it whispers. Do not mess up gracefullmess of peace.

2. Try to avoid to shout loud about your plans and never show off your wealth, jealousy has never been canceled. We know that it won't really affect you that much, but it may harm someone's feelings and created misguided attitude, that we may not want it to be happened. Let ordinary people think that you are ordinary and special people, that are close to your heart, know how special they are, so share with them your true feelings, hopes, dreams, goals and desires simply because they love you and wish to see you happy.

3. You don't need to talk if there is nothing to say. Words should have a meaning and a weight. If those words do to represent your true thoughts and feelings, than again keep the golden silence. It takes a word to kill or to animate - that is how powerful words are. So use this weapon wisely.

4. Always have a dream or a goal, that is what will make your day to go with a flow. Motivation is a great driver that will never keep you bored. Also nice to know that passion will set you young forever and help you go through daily troubles.

5. On the way to your dream, be grateful for what you have. Being constantly concentrated to obtain, can dismiss something that you already have. Look around, life is a magical creation that does not need to be complaigned about.

6. Be honest with your self. Be honest with your friend's and family. What's the point of pretending? Giving is a new receiving, but even better! In another words you recieve what you give. So please, be sincere and generous.

7. Try to keep a balance in everything you do. Extremes are fun but equilibrium and yin yang will never go out of fashion because it is the most refind formula of life.

Wisdom is not being smart or cleaver, it is being kind and happy!

We wish you a great week!